The Deceptiveness of Deception

When things don't go our way or our desires are not met, it is interesting how we respond. Some will pray and seek God's wisdom and power. In addition, some will work hard to resolve the issue, no matter how difficult it may be, or how much time it may take. Others withdraw because the thought of conflict and solving issues (especially in relationships) is too much to handle. Others may try to manipulate or even take advantage of others by using deception. Is this worth it? How many of us do this? What does God want us to do in order to live in truth and integrity in a world where these values may not be held as tightly?